i am stuck between two "world"

last SG · 2010-10-12T15:02:21+00:00

You must be really into anime. I am into them too but not really extreme but I talk about it to my friends as they love it too. Some of my friends are even m...

Inoue~chan (^-^) SG

hii hii. Let me intro myself, my name's cherlyn and im 18 now. Currently in poly ^^

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i recently found out about this site when i was browsing through the net related to my problems. Since google ain't really helping me =w=, i thought of giving it a try of posting it here and hopefully u guys can help me neh ^^.

My Problem :-

ok u see. I really really LOVE anime. U can call me an otaku i wouldn't mind since we all here behind screen haha bleh ;p. And i love my friends too which is my school friends and my other friends. But the worst part of it is that none of my friends are into anime as well as i do. They do watch from time to time but not fanatic about it. And yes im fanatic about it. After an outing together with my friends, i would go home and the first thing in my mind is anime so i just turn on my PC and watch it.

This really starting to bothers me. I NEED someone to talk to about all these anime and stuff. I want to share out all my hobbies but i've been keeping secrets from my friends that i'm an otaku myself. Once they found out, it will be really embarrassing for me and i wont show my face infront of them again. I love anime as well as my friends. I know they dont like otakus because they got talk to me before regarding that. I know how singaporeans look down on otakus. It's really making me sad and ashamed. So i've been keeping my secrets about being an otaku ever since EVEN my own family.

U guys see, i really indeed help here. I can't stay quiet forever. I'm good at socializing, i am. Just those casual talks/clubbing/humor/lan and stuff together with my friends is really fun but none of those are my type of "excitement". I need someone that understands me so we can share out each other but i do not have any of them. please help me. What should i do?

and yup, im an otaku because i have LOADS of mangas and erm.......toys of animes haha.

ChoCoChips SG

er, find pple who shares the same interest?

and y do u need to discuss anime wif pple?

wads there to discuss??

Inoue~chan (^-^) SG

CHOCOCHIPS. not discuss...... meh. just talk it out. hobbies to share. talk here and there. what anime u like? what anime plushie u like? which anime favourite character and does th storyline sucks? something like that and so on. i cant say that to my friends... =w=

ChoCoChips SG

er.. ok.

u can go online n find lo.

i read mangas n stuff but i dun rly talk abt it. >.>

Macho Man SG

Same lar here. I post about serial killer but nobody here want to know. But ok serial killer story is not my hobby, i only want to warn people about danger of meeting via internet. But nobody share my thot.

So you like anime. What is chance of meeting people hav interest? Very low.

angel7030 SG

too bad i cannot really help you, we got different hobby, you like anime, I love money.

FireGas SG

too bad i cannot really help you, we got different hobby, you like anime, I love money.

Yalor, I agree.

To TS:

you like anime, I love s3x.

Well, get into real world ba. Anime will end one day and replaced by another anime show.

Inoue~chan (^-^) SG

CHOCOCHIPS what do u mean go online and find? i mean in singapore peoples not usa =w=. real sorry but this is like my first time in the forum community so i didnt know much lols

btw anyone here reading this who is really serious and may have a suggestion please help me thanks soo much ^^

ChoCoChips SG

wad i meant was Join those anime discussion sites.

sg oso have wad. y oni usa.

PedoBear SG

yeah

people here usually just ignore me on my posts about my love for children

i like anime too if you are pretty

want to meet up?

troublemaker2005 SG

too bad i cannot really help you, we got different hobby, you like anime, I love money.

i also love money. mayb one day we can discuss how we can transfer money into each otehrs account.

troublemaker2005 SG

S yo don;t love anime at all. you just found a hobby that you can show off only. a hobby that youcan chat and show how much you like and know and watch about some anime and manga. i also lie some alot when i was a teenager and during NS. however i don;t find it bore with my friends then since not all t=of them like it, and only one or two i can chat on that. but that's cool. alone i still enjoyed anime back then, and i don;t see why i can't enjoy it on my own and have to pipe it all up so that i can let the wolrd know what i liked.

people with such problem usually need to identify themselves, exu=hibitionist. if you cannot handle it i suggets you quickly drop anime before it becomes an addict. you say yourslef you are good in solcialising. go out and make even more friend snad winden your sircle more.

from what i see before you become toomuch of an exhibitionist it sbetter to pull out before you hurt even more people, people who don;t really like it or are just a neutral party in such hobbies and pastimes.

kopiosatu SG

go to the forum sgclub

got lots of people like u there

Forbiddensinner SG

hii hii. Let me intro myself, my name's cherlyn and im 18 now. Currently in poly ^^

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My Problem :-

and yup, im an otaku because i have LOADS of mangas and erm.......toys of animes haha.

You remind me of Nogizaka Haruka.

You are an otaku, so you should know who that is.

Well, if you really want to, you can just share online on those anime chat sites/forums; almost everyone there are like you: an otaku.

Icygecko84 SG

Haha i'm an otaku too. Downloaded alot of anime but haven't watch them yet. Dying to watch Gundam 00 and many others. I kinda understand how you feel about anime la. Here and there i browse anime shop. Thought about cosplaying too. Sort of a try it once in my life at least that kind of experience. But nobody keen on trying. Oh well it fun but don't let it take over your life is what i think.

littlemissbonkers SG

There are otaku fan clubs in sg too.

Go google for them and join as a member. I think they got organise outings too, so u'll be able to socialise and talk your heads off about the animes/mangas.

Try sgcafe.

likeyou SG

Hey TS, can show any photos on your hobbies you collect?

HyperionDCZ SG

yeah

people here usually just ignore me on my posts about my love for children

i like anime too if you are pretty

want to meet up?

LOL dude you are fucking hilarious!

troublemaker2005 SG

i also like to cosplay. one japanese character i forget the comic / mnga name already something like Ichiro 一只狼

我是一只狼 (i am ichiro)

Fire Cracker SG

u mean u sometime imagine u r naruto. sometime is real self.

got a split personality... like to cosplay and see lots of cartoon....

it's just fantasy. it'll go away when u started working and found out the real work is full of shit